Now I Can Move On
They're like me!
Cross posted to Paul and Sara.
I just got the call. My divorce is finally over!
It’s been two long years, involved moving from one country to another, changing everything in my life and a lot of trials and tribulations but it is finally over.
It’s less than an hour since I got the call that it is all done and it’s hard to describe what I’m feeling right now.
I’m overwhelmed.
I feel regret that it took so long to get done and that things were so difficult.
There is a massive sense of relief. It’s done. It’s like the elephant that has been sitting on my shoulders for the past two years has finally gone it’s own way.
There is happiness. I’m happy that it is all over. That I am now free to move on. That my now legally ex-wife has moved on with her life and that I won’t have to deal with legalities or the leech on ones soul that is waiting.
Above all I am overjoyed. I can now legally move on and be with Sara. We can push forward with our plans without waiting on courts or papers on my side.
Yes, above all I am overjoyed that everything is finally finished. Now I can build towards my future with Sara without the stress or uncertainties of waiting and not knowing if the courts would had me a decision today, tomorrow, next week or next month.
It’s done. I am happy. We can be happy.
Thank you to everyone who has stood by and shown their support while this has gone on. Friends, family, Sara, thank you! I love you all.
[...] It was over, his divorce was finished. [...]
You know I am insanely happy, even if you did wake me up so early to tell me!
It’s been a long 18 months, but I love you and can’t imagine my life without you.
You are absolutely worth the wait
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